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Wednesday, May 16, 2007

The Maid

I have always been one who is unable to accept people into my life easily. I do not mean boyfriends only but people in general. And if I like that person & it starts from the very beginning I lay eyes on them then that is a good sign. I guess in a way its like I trust my own judgement into whether to accept them in my life asap or not. Then came the maid.

I have had 6 or 7 maids who had taken care of me since I was little. And so far only 2 I like. I am that hard to please. Or maybe everyone is like that. I cannot decipher how some people can accept these maids into their family so easily. I don't seem to be able to handle it very well. Some might misunderstand it as me being jealous of welcoming them. Its like another sister I never had. Another mouth to feed, another person who uses the electricity & ups the bill, another user who my parents will have to buy neccessities for. Its not jealousy. Period.

This maid I have now, I feel have been given too much face. So lets discuss what a maid is paid for. Work. Big Fullstop. Ofcourse not to the extent of killing her slowly by giving her ample work everyday but you know clean the house, take care of the elders etc. So I expect her to do just that. But these are the things she seem to be getting though.

New clothes which has given her actually a whole "drawer cupboard" to fill it up with.
2 FULL meals a day with snacks in between.
Accessories. *this what the hell for? Attract people? Errrrrr..... Is that what she is here for?*
She cleans the house but only sweeps and mops the floor. What about the cupboards? Dust sticks on them all the time!
Oh and she even gets to choose whether she wana go and help out at my relatives house or not. Without asking my parents permission. Like they will call and ask her to help them. I mean yea my relatives are wrong too but she is a human right? Doesn't she have the brains to know who her Sir and Ma'am is?
She even complains about how her body aches every sunday after our religious class here in my house.

To make matter worse, my aunty who is leaving with me pampers her like Hell! Letting her watch tv and asking her to sleep if she is too tired? And all this We didn't even know until now. Can you believe it!?

What the hell was that about!? Getting pissed off at her only is certainly an understatement. Seriously too much face has been given to her. The other 2 maids that I like are very different. Yes I know, everyone is different But as a maid, don't you have atleast one thing in common? You are here to work and do your job fully right.

I duno. I never really did like her. I tried. I mean I guess being in a different place with a different family is difficult. But now that you have a great family, can you please not take advantage of it. I cannot stand it. I cannot wait for the day she leaves. Urgh! MAIDS!


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